Thursday, November 17, 2011

Not Just A Shoe Repair Shop

A few weeks ago, I just decided my high heeled boots needed repair, and drove to my favourite shoe repair shop in London, Westown Shoe Clinic at Cherryhill Village Mall. 


Luigi was busy at work as usual. I showed him my boots asking if he could repair them while I waited. He said sure, have a seat. I sat on a high stool started looking around. The smell of leather, shoe polish, and that overall feeling of being in a shoe repair shop took me back to my childhood. All of a sudden I was sitting on a small wooden stool watching an old man repairing shoes.

When I was a little girl I remember going everywhere with my mother. One of the places we visited on a regular basis was the shoe repair shop. It was a very small, shabby looking place. The walls were covered from the floor to the ceiling with shoes. I used to sit on a little wooden stool and wait patiently as my mother gave instructions to the shoe repairman as to what needed to be done for each shoe. I loved the smell of shoe polish and was amazed by all the shoe sizes, colours, and variety of models and styles. Sometimes, we stayed there to get something done immediately and I had more time to feed my curious mind. I would count each stroke of the brush that was being manoeuvred by him so skilfully. His worn out, stained, tattered apron gave him enough protection to keep his clothes clean. I could tell he could repair or shine a shoe with his eyes closed as he was very fast and good at what he did.

Boots :)


Luigi came back with my high heeled boots, I was very pleased. He said not to touch them as he just polished them. I was that little girl with sparkles in my eyes looking at my boots being all cleaned up and shining. It was like brand new. No, even better. I remembered when my very first little heels were given to me by my late aunt. I was the happiest little girl putting little red, velvety sandals with little sparkles of gold on them.

As he went to the back, my eyes were fixed on the little decorative shoes he had from around the world. I told him next time I’ll bring him a pair I’ve kept for a few years, so he can hang it up there with the rest. Then I remembered my favorite pair of shiny leather shoes which I obsessively cleaned everyday before going to school.



Just a pair of shoes! Memories of my childhood...

I asked him if his family will continue his business after he’s retired. He said he’d probably shut it down. As first generation immigrants we all want our kids to get a good education and follow their own dreams. Luigi’s family won’t be following in their dad’s footsteps. It made me think this place has so much history and memory for him and for people like me. I hope he'll stay in the business for the longest time to come.


"A shoe repairman and his young apprentice"

Make sure to visit Luigi on Facebook


Some of the sources: Your Shoe Repair Shop and WN.com

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Dancing Shoes Won't Come Off!


"Dance is your pulse, your heart beat, your breathing. It's the rhythm of your life. It's the expression of time and movement, in happiness, joy, sadness and envy. "


The day that I'll be taking my last breath, I know I'll still have my dancing shoes on. No one is going to tell me to stop dancing. NO ONE!


Those who can move their body and let their soul intertwine with the beautiful sound of music were given a gift by god to demonstrate beauty.


Our age has nothing to do with our ability to dance.  There is no limit or boundary in allowing yourself to enjoy rhythmic movement of your body to the music.




Yes, She is 84! Inspirational...

Never give a sword to a man who can't dance - Confucius

Next time you come across a short-minded person making a nasty comment to limit you and your abilities, walk away smiling knowing he's only limiting himself.

Saturday, September 24, 2011

Tiesto

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❤ Tiesto❤


It was July 7, 2011 when I saw a tweet from @JLC informing the world that Tiesto is coming to John Labbatt Centre in  London! I literally screamed and brought my hands to my face with an unbelievable shock that ran through me. You see, having JLC in our city is a big deal. I have driven to Toronto many times to see U2, Muse, ColdPlay, The Killers, and much more. But since JLC is here I have been enjoying this privilege without the cost of travelling and I get home in 10 minutes afterwards! I could not believe Tiesto had chosen London as his only stop in Ontario!
Surprisingly, I did not purchase my ticket right away for some reason! Then, for a short period of time, I hoped to be chosen as a JLC Reviewer but that did not happen since I don’t have many followers from London to nominate me! The morning of the concert, I bought my VIP ticket, and the whole day I was just pre-occupied by the thought of the concert that night. Going to concerts is a big deal for me regardless of who is performing.  The only time I allow myself to waste time in getting ready and occupy myself with makeup and my wardrobe is before going to any concerts. Otherwise, I’m a low maintenance girl with five minutes prep time required to get out the door.
Although I have been to many concerts of various magnitudes, I had never been in VIP sections till that night and I probably won’t bother with it again in the future. You see, the people who were non-VIPs were standing on the floor closer to the stage than VIP people. And for someone like me who dances like a maniac non-stop and doesn’t need to go back and forth for drinks and what not, the $26.00 or $36.00 ticket price would have sufficed.  As you go to more and more concerts, you learn what works for you and what doesn’t.
I always buy my favourite artists t-shirt, get my drink, show my ticket and go in. The gentlemen at the entrance to VIP section was trying to detangle lanyards and was so cute trying to do his best, but I teased him and turned it into a competition between him and the other lady at his side and said let’s see who can give me my lanyard and of course she won. Girl Power.
I got there around 8:30 and danced my feet off till 12:30! I could not stay till the end as I did not have painkillers to help me dance for a few more hours O_0!!
Going to concerts for me is about being with others and sharing the same excitement and feelings. I love watching people. My experience of going to a concert is all the small interactions that take place between me and the rest of the world. 
There was a tall handsome guy who was blocking my view, so I tapped him on his shoulder and with a big smile and hand movement told him I couldn’t see.  In return, he gave me a huge smile and moved to the other corner with his girlfriend and continued to dance with enthusiasm like no other. Or there was the couple who was making out X-RATEDLY and the couple beside me were telling me with the look in their eyes that they need to get a room. YES. People who were dressed completely were half naked midway through the concert. 
And the moments that I kept straightening my arms to let the cute boys know that that’s my personal spaceJ. The most fun part for me was toward the end of the night. I moved away from VIP and found a nice seat to get some rest. I started noticing that this concert, despite the name of it “CollegeInvasionTour” had people from all walks of life dancing. Each individual was enjoying themselves with lots of spaces between them unlike the front that you could elbow someone from each direction. I smiled as I watched them reading their faces how they did not have the care in the world and were lost in the music. And that’s when Adagio was played! 

I got off my seat and danced again without a care as well. When a random dude grabbed my hand I twirled and danced with him, filled with joy, and then let go and just danced around the arena taking pictures. I asked some people if I could take their picture and they said yes. Then I dance around the very dedicated employee who was trying so hard to focus on his job and I was taking my picture with him saying I’ll blog it and he just enthusiastically smiled.
As for Porter Robinson, I had not listened to him till that night and I am a big fan now. I danced non-stop and was able to get some very nice photos of him despite my low quality camera. 
I don’t need to tell you how amazing both Tiesto and Porter Robinson were that night. The only thing I can say is that I am so glad to have had the opportunity to listen to their work LIVE and dance to it. After Muse this is my 2nd favourite concert of all time.
I am a big fan of the JLC and am on the look out for their upcoming concerts. It is up to music fans to provide feedback and let the JLC know who we want to see and hear. Chris Campbell and his team have done an amazing job so far in bringing magical moments to many of us at the JLC. This is an interesting article about the John Labatt Centre.


“For me going to a concert isn't just about the artist, it's about the culture, the common thread that brings strangers together” – 
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I should clarify that I don't expect to be JLC reviewer! NOT AT ALL! I am an avid concert goer and if I like to see any of my favourite artists I make sure to get my ticket! CHEERS!


Photos: All the photos posted are taken by my camera. 

Monday, August 1, 2011

Remembering Fran Crippen



I have been thinking of writing a blog post for Fran Crippen for a while now. I have started to write a couple of times and then have stopped half way, not finishing it for many reasons. But tonight as I’m thinking about World Championship in Shanghai can’t help but thinking what if Fran were here.


If you have read my previous blogs you know that my swimming group created swimming events on Facebook back in 2009. Although my first group was called “Michael Phelps News and Events”, it did not exclude any other athletes. The events would report scores and results right after each race, and congratulatory notes would be posted on each swimmers wall. 
FINA 2009 was very special to me at many different levels. I learned a lot about each swimmer and will always cherish my memories of Rome.

One of the swimmers that I wrote on their wall right after their victory was Fran Crippen. He had won bronze in the 10K. He actually took the time to write on my wall, thanking me for my effort. It was exciting times.  I enjoyed interacting with the swimmers and swim fans. I have many favourite swimmers and Fran was one of them. I call the swimming community my “Swim Family”. You get to know and learn things about swimmers through publications, stories, articles, their wall posts, their tweets, and etc.  You witness them graduate, marry, have babies, and practically get to be a part of their lives in the background.

When Fran created his page, I was the first person to post on his page. I said: “I’ll be cheering for you until 2012” and he replied: “Thank You”. He was polite and responded to his fans. I loved reading the wall posts between him and his sisters. They always put smile on my face. I could observe how proud and supportive of his sisters he was.

One day in October, as I was reading swim news as usual, I became numb. I could not believe what I was reading. I knew what I was reading but at the same time I was telling myself, I am reading it wrong, go back and read again. But unfortunately, it was true. This was from Huffingtonpost:

“PHILADELPHIA — Fran Crippen, a medal-winning open-water swimmer on the U.S. national team, told his coach he wasn't feeling well late in a race before he died in the United Arab Emirates on Saturday.”


I just cried in front of my computer and was hopeless. I didn’t know what to do. Everyone deals with loss in many different ways. I was thinking of his sisters, his family, and his fiancé. It was only after his death and reading more articles that I learned about his true character and his big heart. He was loved by many and he will be missed by many. 


14th FINA World Championships was held from July 16 to 31, 2011, with Open Water swimming starting on the 19th. I could not help but thinking of Fran.

”In London in 2012, Fran will aim to be the first US medalist ever in open water swimming at an Olympic Games.”

When Alex Meyer finished 4th in his 10K event and earned a spot in the 2012 London Olympics, I was overwhelmed with joy but at the same time again thinking of Fran and I knew he’d be watching him and he was proud.

In my eyes, he is an Olympian. I hope, he’ll be remembered in a very special way during Open Water Swimming in London 2012 by USA Swimming.



❤Remember, I will still be here❤
❤As long as you hold me, in your memory❤
❤Remembering Fran Crippen❤


Sunday, July 31, 2011

Emergency Alert in Horn of Africa - Many Ways To Make Donations


Share food, change lives

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For the past few weeks, my tweets have been focusing on famine in South East Africa as I find the dire situation in Africa heartbreaking and requiring our utmost attention.  The shift is a necessary and important one to raise awareness and help facilitate donations to prevent the senseless loss of innocent lives.

When reading article after article, I find myself filled with many emotions. I get angry reading that some political groups deny their own people food and shelter in the name of an ideology which I find unacceptable and frustrating. I cry reading that a mother had to decide between her children and left her 3 year old on the side of the road to die to save the other two. I’m enraged to read six year old girls getting raped on their way to find food. I find myself very sad that as human beings we are failing at many levels. It is time to wake up and help our fellow brothers and sisters in the Horn of Africa, it is time to save children who are subjected to war, hunger, rape, disease, and we should not close our eyes and pretend it is not happening. We need to step up and help as much as we can.

This blog is not about analyzing the underlying issues and problems facing Somalia, neighbouring countries, and in Africa.  Although it is imperative to be knowledgeable and find a long term solution to the famine situation, at this point the attention should be focused solely on humanitarian efforts to save lives.

The purpose of this blog is to post all related links for donation in one place to allow you easy donations to your favourite charity or organization. I will try to post all the links. If you have a link that you know I have missed, please let me know.



HELP STOP THE STARVING - AND ITS CAUSES


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Fighting Hunger Worldwild



UNICEF - $10 can feed a child for 10 days




Immediate response to emergency medical needs 















Canada





Plan Canada 


united states funds
Provide Lifesaving Plumpy'nut® in Horn of Africa 






The British Red Cross 






"One in 6 people suffers from chronic hunger"
Put pressure on politicians to end hunger. Sign the petition, and push for action wherever you are.


Play Freerice and feed the hungry                                          Help end child hunger





"Josette Sheeran, the head of the UN's World Food Program, talks about why, in a world with enough food for everyone, people still go hungry, still die of starvation, still use food as a weapon of war. Her vision: "Food is one issue that cannot be solved person by person. We have to stand together." TEDTALK

Somali refugees need your help now!



Saturday, July 23, 2011

RIP Amy Winehouse

We make connections with artists through their music. The relationship becomes stronger as the lyrics seem to be written specifically keeping you in mind. We all have those songs that are forever special in our hearts and we have stories to tell that are specific and unique to our experiences. For me, Amy’s “Back to Black” “Tears Dry on Their Own” and “Love is a Losing Game” are those songs.

Hearing of her death, I’m not shocked. But I am saddened. It is unfortunate to see the society we live in making money off of peoples’ misery and misfortune. Amy had drug and alcohol problems, and we did not hesitate to make fun of her, post pictures of her in her most vulnerable position and point fingers at her. What could have society done as a whole to prevent her tragic death? How many Amys are out there that need help but the only thing they get is a snigger or a dirty look? Those of you, who made money talking trash about her, I hope life treats you well. But I doubt my well wishes would stop bad karma heading your way.

We are all vulnerable at some level, when feeling desperate and alone. It happens. During those times we need a shoulder to cry on and someone to listen to us. We don’t need to be judged, ridiculed, pointed finger at, and publicly humiliated.



  ❤ RIP Amy ❤

Buried her heart a while ago, her sad soul could not stay far behind.
A talent left us too soon.


If you are reading this and have drug or alcohol addictions, please ask for help.

On the first anniversary of Winehouse's death, it's worth remembering just what a natural, instinctive musician she was... http://www.guardian.co.uk/music/2012/jul/22/amy-winehouse-first-anniversary-death



Thursday, June 23, 2011

Canadian Swimmers in My Backyard!

It all started by reading Ryan Cochrane's Tweet! June 21, 2011: "Just landed in Toronto. Now on to London! Ontario. (Training for the week)"! I was like what? where, how? I started Googling his name to find out why he is in London, Ontario. At first, it was disappointing. But then, Bingo! I came across London Aquatic Club website with this info: Victoria Swimming Academy head Coach Randy Bennett, who is Canada's Head Coach for this summer's World Championships in Shanghai, China and next year's Olympics in London, will be here in London, Ontario from June 22-29 with 4 of his swimmers for a week-long training camp.  The swimmers are Ryan Cochrane (2008 Olympic bronze medalist), Julia Wilkinson (double bronze medalist at the 2010 Commonwealth Games), Stephanie Horner and Alexa Komarnycky.  All 4 of these swimmers were members of the 2008 Canadian Olympic Team, and have their sights set on London 2012. ....


I made some phone calls to find out how I can meet them. I was shocked when I heard they are training practically in my backyard using the facility in the Thames Park! 
So, today I grabbed my camera, determined to get some pictures with my swimmers :) I expected to be turned away and to end up taking photos like paparazzi from behind the fence. The girl at the counter smiled and said she will ask her manager and let me know. She walked a long distance to get to him. Then he walked to someone else who's back was towards me and talked to him. I said that's it they are training and don't want to be bothered. I saw a one man TV crew with a mic standing there too pacing around with his cell phone. But then the manager came in and said: Randy says it's ok! WOW, That was coach Randy Bennett. YEP! Got in. Of course, me being a sociable creature and kind of excited cut him right off when he was talking to Julia! I said: oh, It's me BellaBehold from twitter and she gave me her biggest smile and being so receptive of me being there intruding in between the coach's instructions. Sorry Coach Randy :) 
Then I saw Ryan swimming. And of course Stephanie and Alexa! What an amazing, friendly, welcoming group of swimmers. They let me stay around to take pictures and chatted a bit. Everyone wanted to know what's my interest in swimming and of course I  go back to 2008 and how I created "Michael Phelps News and Events" and "Open Water Swim News and Events", and how I have lots of Olympian swimmers as my friends and I support them and cheer them on. Of course, I did not tell them that I don't have Facebook for now (another blog will come in a few days again!). They were a bit surprised to see the enthusiasm I had for them. I guess it's the Canadian way, very laid back. I expected to see at least some kind of gathering of people asking for autographs, and what not but NO. Business as usual, people were doing their own thing and here I am super excited that I have met some of my Olympian swimmers and now have a chance to have photo taken with them. Canada has a long way to go to bring swimming into main stream in terms of promoting it to public. 
I asked coach Randy why London? As soon as he was telling me why, I quietly said to myself I should have come up with that answer myself! It makes sense to go from Santa Clara to London and then head to Montreal! 


I'd like to thank the staff at the London Aquatic Club for directing me to Thames Park, and the staff at the park, the coach, and my Olympian swimmers for letting me have a chance to meet with them and capture some memories. Good luck in Montreal, Shanghai, in between, and London 2012! Cheering you on!




Who knew I could meet Ryan Cochrane in my own backyard!



Support your athletes by following them on Twitter or becoming fan of their pages. 


Ryan Cochrane:   
Julia Wikinson:    
Alexa Komarnycky:  


Happy Olympic Day !  http://www.olympic.org/ June 23rd!




I'll be adding any links relevant to above swimmers here gradually :)
1. Stacking Up At Santa Clara

Monday, June 20, 2011

My Beloved Father

Yesterday, was Father’s Day...I wanted to write something for my dad, but I decided not to...My father and I share a special bond...when I need him he visits me in my dreams...he came last night...so, I decided to write this

Stream of tears running down on her face, she couldn’t stop crying as the vehicle passed through the mountains...at only the age of 20 she had to leave her homeland behind her and leave...a decision that was made for her...that was the sad part, she never had wanted to leave...up to this day she remembers how it felt, placing her head against her dad’s broad chest and hug him...the last time she said goodbye she tried to memorize every line on his face...the white hair...she hugged him tighter this time...much longer than their usual goodbyes...she knew that this was it, but couldn’t tell him she is leaving them behind...a decision that to this day has hunted her...her beloved father would die 5 years later and she never had a chance to say anymore goodbyes....my beloved father...




Forever in my heart

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Social Media Etiquette and Swimming - A Fan's Perspective

I got mad last night when I missed some of my favourite swim events because of “Technical Difficulties”. It wasn’t the technical difficulties alone that made me mad, so I decided to blog...

Back in 2009, I decided to bring swim events to Facebook. I started with Santa Clara 2009! I decided to create events for major swim competitions and promote all of the swimmers who work hard. The goal was for the fans and the general public to see instant results of swimming, and to have a chance to provide feedback and let the swimmers know that their hard work is appreciated and validated by the fans. My admins and I would go to swimmers’ pages or walls and congratulate them. It was a great system. We used to receive feedback from swimmers themselves, their parents, or just fans saying how much they appreciated our hard work. For us, it wasn’t hard. It was fun and we truly felt that ALL SWIMMERS needed to be appreciated equally. Although my swim group was called “Michael Phelps News and Events”, our swimming EVENTS were not about promoting Michael Phelps. When the time for events came, we treated all the swimmers equally and gave all the love and support for their hard work.

From that point on, the idea of covering swim events by various groups and organizations emerged. We knew this would bring more attention not only to the sport of swimming but also to the swimmers themselves.

Unfortunately, when dealing with big corporations, the case is different. Those Corporations that cover some of the swimming events make money through advertising and marketing swimmers that are super famous! During a swim event, it is obvious who they favour and give more attention to. It is not like a Facebook event that all swimmers get acknowledged. I used to do it in a fair manner when I did my swim events.

Swim fans, like me, have many favourite swimmers that we cheer for.  A swimming event is not just about Coughlin, Phelps, and Lochte! There many famous and not so famous swimmers from around the globe who appreciate the same amount of acknowledgment and validation. We want to see all of our swimmers succeed and get a glimpse of the fruits of their labour. So, on the night of finals, we don’t want to hear about technical problems or have a slow stream of information.

My concern is when the reporters and people behind the scenes become biased in reporting any sports and only covering very famous people.  They are ignoring fans. After all, it is the fans that purchase products, buy tickets and look forward to see a glimpse of their favourite athlete the night of finals.

This blog is not to about putting down the hard work of USA swimming, rather a constructive criticism which I hope the USA management team will look at and make improvement to their online reporting procedures.

There is social media etiquette involved when posting results of any major events to Facebook, Twitter, and any other form of social media outlet. In case of swimming:
  • A paid employee or a trained volunteer whose only job is to post results should be recruited to the job.
  • If the same person is simultaneously trying to take care of numerous personal online accounts and running around to do many other things in between each swim events, then there is a delay in posting those results. There is inaccuracy at times and mistakes. Hence, the quality of work drops.
  • A list of all the swimmers and country of origin, and if they have any Facebook page/Twitter accounts  should be made available to the social media coordinator to enable him/her post results quickly, and accurately; and this way everyone gets equal respect and acknowledgment.
  • So if some not very famous person all of a sudden breaks a record and/or gets first place, the social media coordinator can look it up and post correct information. Respect and Acknowledgement.
  • Although it is not possible to interview all of the swimmers, an effort should be made to give the first place winner the only spot for the interview for fans to see. We have witnessed that someone who is a bit more famous and was second in an event to get the spot rather than the well-deserved first place winner.
  • The person responsible for posting on behalf of an important organization like USA swimming should sign official papers to adhere to the code of conducts and ethics. The role should not be passed around to whoever is available to do it. I don’t know how USA swimming takes care of their online stuff but only ONE designated person should be in charge and held accountable. This is also to prevent anyone abusing their privileges under the USA swimming name.
  • The language for posting should remain professional all the time and when fans enquire about something it has to be dealt with in a timely manner and without an exclamation mark at the end of the sentence showing displeasure.
  • Although technical problems do happen, seeing it two nights in a row is not acceptable!
  • Swimming events are about swimmers, swimming, and fans. It should not be about technical problems and apologies.
I say it like it is....


"Michael Phelps News and Events" - Was the first group to bring swim events to Facebook



If You've read my previous blogs, I have mentioned that my Facebook is scheduled to be deleted. But that also means losing 3 major groups on Facebook including "Usain Bolt News and Events" and "Open Swim Water News and Events". I was going to cover two major swim events before I decided to delete my Facebook. I have 2nd thoughts...

One thing is for sure...swimming changed my life